Pay It Forward
July 3, 2012 § 19 Comments
Just this afternoon, I was watching a movie “Pay It Forward” over at HBO and was truly impressed about the concept it was trying to project. I found out it was released in 2000 (shows how outdated I am about movies) starring Haley Joel Osment as a boy who launches a good-will movement, Helen Hunt as his single mother, and Kevin Spacey as his social-studies teacher.
When someone does you a favor, don’t pay it back… PAY IT FORWARD
The 7th grader (Osment) while attending a class decided to do a project where he would do a favor to 3 people, his mum included. And the recipient of the favors were supposed to forward it to 3 other people, hence pay it forward. The move catches on and became a widespread phenomenon. The movie itself was weak despite strong performances from the leading actors and with a bad ending. How could a hero (the boy) died? Heroes shouldn’t die at end of movies. They should live!.
Back to the concept of “pay it forward”, it is used to describe the concept of asking that a good deed be repaid by having it done for others instead. It was first mooted out in a prizewinning play in ancient Athens dating back to 317BC, by Dyskolos. The concept was rediscovered and described by Benjamin Franklin, in a letter to Benjamin Webb dated April 25, 1784:
“I do not pretend to give such a Sum; I only lend it to you. When you […] meet with another honest Man in similar Distress, you must pay me by lending this Sum to him; enjoining him to discharge the Debt by a like operation, when he shall be able, and shall meet with another opportunity. I hope it may thus go thro’ many hands, before it meets with a Knave that will stop its Progress. This is a trick of mine for doing a deal of good with a little money.”
In 1916, Lily Hardy Hammond wrote, “You don’t pay love back; you pay it forward.”
An anonymous spokesman for Alcoholics Anonymous said in the Christian Science Monitor in 1944, “You can’t pay anyone back for what has happened to you, so you try to find someone you can pay forward.”
The term “pay it forward” was popularized by Robert A. Heinlein in his book Between Planets, published in 1951:
The banker reached into the folds of his gown, pulled out a single credit note. “But eat first β a full belly steadies the judgment. Do me the honor of accepting this as our welcome to the newcomer.” His pride said no; his stomach said YES! Don took it and said, “Uh, thanks! That’s awfully kind of you. I’ll pay it back, first chance.” “Instead, pay it forward to some other brother who needs it.”
Heinlein both preached and practiced this philosophy; now the Heinlein Society, a humanitarian organization founded in his name, does so. Author Spider Robinson made repeated reference to the doctrine, attributing it to his spiritual mentor Heinlein.
The mathematician Paul Erdos heard about a promising math student unable to enroll in Harvard University for financial reasons. Erdos contributed enough to allow the young man to register. Years later, the man offered to return the entire amount to Erdos, but Erdos insisted that the man rather find another student in his situation, and give the money to him.
I was astonished to find out that it started so long ago and I had failed to come across it or even heard of it until this afternoon (I should thank HBO, no?). I must truly read more, I supposed. Such a grand scheme and we could all play a part in it and in return, help people who can then help other people. The thing is this concept must be done deliberately so that the recipients know what they need to do in returning the favors. Fabulous, indeed!
And off I go now, to add an entry to my Life List, namely Pay It Forward.
100% in favor……
In favor of doing a favor? Thanks for the 100% support π
Now I really want to watch the movie π
You should, the kid is as smart as you are. And quite observant too π
Haha, thank you. I will watch it. That’s a promise
Let me know what you think then, ok? Now, whether you could actually find the movie…
I will search netflix and other websites like that. I will π
xx Julia
Enjoy yourself and as they say, see you at the movies π
The concept is so inspiring and one we should all grasp onto in a much grander way. What a world it could be…
It is indeed, isn’t it? Did it actually catch on in the US, the Pay-It-Forward concept? Imagine if most of us were to actually on a Pay-It-Forward scheme. Sounds fabulous! Btw, thanks for visiting and dropping a few lines, much obliged.
Ever heard of Oprah Winfrey? She picked it up and ran with. It did catch on to a certain extent, but obviously not to the extent that it had any real cumulative effect that real change occurred. My thought is that at the end of the day, most people that have the means to pay it forward would be bias in where/who they gave, so would probably never change to world!
Oh yes I know Oprah, the lady who does good things in her TV program. Love the way she surprises people. Well, as long as there are people who are still doing this PIF, the world will be a better place, even if the number is very small.
I agree. My hope for the world in general is that the core of people that care just keeps growing bit by bit. Maybe in a few generations to come it will again be a better place for all π
Wonderful post and I remember this movie and loved the concept, too! Thanks for the reminder!
You actually did see it eh? And here I am, being 12 years too late (:
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Great post, Bob! I saw the “Pay It Forward” movie and thought we should all do this. It wouldn’t be so hard, would it? The world would be a kinder and more gentle place. I had no idea about all the history behind it. Thanks for that!
Hi Amy, thanks for your kind words. Indeed, it wouldn’t be that hard to do it, and just imagine if a lot of us are actually doing it, it would be fabulous, wouldn’t it? All of us do need favors, one way or another, yes?
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